Just so I can give you a little insight into Zen's reaction, I had the same one but a bit stronger. I had to not say anything just so I could sit back and see if anyone felt the same way.
I'm watching you take some brutal beatings and maybe some of them are deserved, but it's enough after awhile. I don't see hardly anything in your posts where she is accepting accountability. You say she is. Is it that you are just not posting that information?
Listen, don't get me wrong, I think that it's great that you are talking and I really believe that you are moving closer. It's just something that is really starting to bother me.
I understand that you have different personalities. I understand and am so proud of you for recognizing your role, but I can't help but thinking that in order to move forward faster, she really does need to take some ownership.
I'm still so very proud of you, 2Step and you definitely are moving in the right direction.
