I'd say that if you are willing to get her back to you no matter what, then just let it go. Refocus on something else. Going on this path i believe might bring you more anxiety, self doubt and just pain that you might regret later. Some things are better if they are just let go. In the whole scheme of things when she does come back to you this detail might not matter. Just my 2c smile


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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...