Wife is here right now trying on clothes for an interview tomorrow. She is not in a good mood at all. I am guessing it is due to her parents. They have been really hard on her and do not want her to take the job that is being offered her. It does not pay much money, and her parents are worried that it will not be enough should she decide to move out.
We talked about it last night in therapy. It is a position in the same school district where she worked with OW. They would have the same hours and work near each other. We validated as a concern of mine, but in the end I supported her, since this kind of work is always what has made her the happiest.
I am wanting to give my wife the copy of the emails that I have today. I am not sure if she would take them or not. I want to take the wedge between us away. I cannot help that she feels distrust right now. I cannot help that she feels like there are multiple copies everywhere. I can only provide them to her to do what I can.
Would this be bad timing with her already upset to bring this up? Would this be good timing knowing that I am giving them to her asap? Thoughts?
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
