I understand. I have been an emotional wreck, but I need to keep them in check. There have been certain instances where I have broken into tears in front of her, and it really pisses me off. I know that it is not attractive. It is pressuring. It makes me feel like I don't have a pair. I fight them, but they just make them out. My W says that it is perfectly okay to cry when the emotion is overwhelming. She mentions how many times in the last five years that I have consoled her while she was in tears. I understand that is trying to console me, but I need to man up and not let that happen now. Thanks for the input.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated