Well, the meeting was uneventful. We were both pleasant, nothing much said to each other except about our D. She didn't wear her ring. frown

Denver, I am strictly off any R talk. I had the recent slip up, and no more.

Our situation with our D actually works out well. She splits time with both of us. My wife works nights as an RN and I pretty much get her on the nights she works, she has her on her nights off. We may switch a night up here or there. Most all of the switch offs do not happen in person. When my wife goes to work she drops her off at daycare, then I pick her up, and vice versa. Maybe once a week we see each other to do the switch.

Can you explain more on going dark? Do I respond when she sends me a pick of our D for example? Just don't initiate any contact? What I have been doing is playing the 'friend' card. Initiating some light conversation, but not a whole lot, guess I should stop that completely? What should be my tone when we do have contact?


BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.