With all that said about my situation today, everyone has been telling me to be firm. In case something similar crops up in the near future, how do I go about extracting information when my wife will not give it up? Do I make her so livid that she screams "That's it! We're through" and/or storms out of the house with my son? Or, how would I convince her to let me go with them? I don't want to be so stubborn with my boundaries as to push her away.
Tomorrow I'm going to see an attorney to see how I can protect myself in case this doctor situation does turn sour.