I asked for transparency, I asked for counseling (he's thinking on this as he's dead set against it), I asked for no contact with OW even if nothing was really going on, it still affected us, I asked for roommate to move out, I asked for a date night every week and I asked that we find more friends down here by finding a group on meetup.com that we both agree on joining.
GOOD for you YOU LIS!! I think that all sounds perfectly reasonable. Bravo!
I hope that he will agree to the counseling too...
Originally Posted By: lostinscared
Michelle, what I can't move on from is that he wants me to talk more. I'm closed up. And it just feels awkward, you know? I hate that awkwardness. How can it be so weird with someone you've been together with for 12 years???
LIS... you and I are alike here for sure. My W would love for me to talk more, but I'm just a believer in less is more if you know what I mean. It is awkward for me to force myself to talk when I don't feel that I really have anything to say. I'd much prefer to listen to my W... that's funny though since I apparently wasn't able to do that very well in our M... A little out loud thinking there. Sorry.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
