I think he just needs a good kick in the pants! Seriously, in your posts there seems to be a feeling that he has, he has started the course he is on and must follow through with it and doesn't know how to change that path. He seems unhappy? From here it seems like a good jolt would do him some good, but you know best. But, it sure doesn't seem hopeless as far as your marriage goes. This is probably a good time to be a shoulder to lean on, somewhere he can come to talk about his job and realize what a support you can be to him. Are there some small things you can change, stopping by his house to talk, inviting him over, to just provide some friendship during this time, small steps to build your life together again?
