Better Days ARE Coming For All of Us...

[ironMan]

Hey LIS. Just wanted to check on you quickly. What an amazing week you've had!

I would like to give you some support ... its ok that you have control right now. I know that often times women want their man to be strong and in control. But, your H is crazy right now. He's a scared little boy.

I think you being strong, and confident is necessary for you to build this foundation. Eventually, he will feel strong again. But, he does need to earn his way back. Maybe he should be walking around like a dog with his tail between his legs.

But ... in the meantime ... what are the things that you could do differently that might've led to to this situation? Now is a good time I would think to go back over and look at those. You're going to have to build a new marriage anyway. Make sure it's built on a better foundation and do everything you can to make this M a better one.

He's going to have to figure out for himself what he can do to reach that end.