Valentine's Day questions

[ironMan]

Sparks ... I understand fully why seeing that was hard on you.

However, you need to distance yourself from this crazy W called your W. You need this space because this is a great opportunity for you. You have somehow gotten into a rut thinking that being nice to women and buying them things etc. is what they want.

Do you ever feel like women are attracted to jerks? They're not. They're attracted to confident, strong men. The least attractive thing you can do now is get bent out of shape in front of her about VDay.

You need to stop being a nice guy, and re-learn how to be a bull. There are some books on the subject which may be useful for you. They were very useful to me ... to help me figure out how I had become somebody that was always worried about my W's happiness instead of my own.

You are in charge of your own life .... time to figure out how to make yourself happy. Crazy W? She's her problem now.