If you were to ask her, she would most likely tell you
most likely?
What would she say if you asked her?
When we started talking like that, I made it very clear that I wasn't defending, and that...you'll notice more often than not HERE in DB, I say things like:
Seems, I believe, I think...
when I talked with her, I pointed out this was my point of view and could very well be wrong, "It seemed like..."
The difference:
I did this because You did this to me
"I thought you did this, and I reacted this way. Which wasn't all that smart."
That's pretty vague...
I got drunk and stayed out until 4, because you treated me like poop.
I thought you were treating me like poop, so I stupidly got drunk and stayed out late, when I should have asked what was wrong or if you were just having a bad day.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
