Um yeah BA thanks for that reminder...I have heard the kissing is fun but apparently the guy who went out with me EIGHT TIMES did not get the memo!!
There are plenty of other fish. Funny what I initially found attractive about him is that he was such a gentleman and not a loud, noisy, player type. Now it seems I find him to be too reserved.
It is hard for me to find someone who is respectful and a gentleman but also mixed with sarcasm and some flirtiness,if that makes sense.
The guys who start out teasing and smart-@ss tend to want too much physical action for my comfort level, too soon. But then the ones who respect my limits so far have also been almost too nice...there needs to be a little of that electricity Ali mentioned.
And yes Ali, the first few dates it was there. Even when we went ice skating, that was the first time he took my hand and I was surprised and delighted. Then the date before this one, about a month ago, he took my hand again at the movies and I liked it. But this last date, he didn't try to touch me in any fashion the entire evening and I just didn't feel any interest coming from him. So, oh well...