My heart goes out to you. I would say that you should detach but with love as we say around here...try to do things for you ...let him see you doing these things for yourself if possible...go out with friends, wear that new ring...but caution...don't do things you don't mean..if you want to be married...wear your wedding ring...believe me ..I know what threats and empty ultimatums can do...lots of damage...and taking off your wedding ring can be seen as sort of a threat...anyway...take good care of yourself...you are in my prayers. You get my GRACE UNDER PRESSURE DB"ER AWARD for Today...for attending that dinner with him! Way to go, girl...you are an inspiration. Keep up the great db'ing...
