Denver, yes, you are right ... I can empathize with WAW ... but still ... I'm not running just because its hard. That's not who I am. But it is apparently who she is. So, is it selfish what she's doing? YES .... but, I do understand why she is doing it ... I really do. I still think it is the wrong thing to do.
Karma, yes. You have put into words something I have thought a bunch. And, really ... we're here for ourselves. I'm not staying strong fer her. I'm being the person I want to be. And yes, that is and will be something to be proud of.
2step ...... thanks. I got to vent to my Mom a bit after the truck incident. It was a very hard day. Just feeling like the W really has the opposite of the midas touch. Everything she touches turns to turds right now. Good thing for me she hasn't touched me in months eh? :-)
But I did handle it well. I didn't say anything besides making sure that everybody was ok. She felt bad enough, and didn't need me to add to it.
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11