2, as always Michelle is spot on. I don't really know what to add. Perfect insight to the sitch. She definitely is letting you know she still doesn't trust you. That is going to take time and is earned. You haven't gotten there yet in her eyes or gut.

Keep it friendly, simple and I agree with Michelle. Too much R talk in almost every convo. She keeps re-hashing the same things over and over with you. You've apologized; profusely at times. She is still blaming YOU; for all of it. I'm not hearing from her any accountability what role she had in this. That should tell you she's not there yet. It would be an admission of guilit (or whatever you want to call it) and that equals to losing her sense of control over the sitch. And you know, WAS's DO NOT like to think they are not in control (even tho we know they really aren't)!

Keep us posted....Have a good afternoon.


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11