Yes it is....but absolutely keep that to yourself!!!!!! Don't show your cards to her lol.
The problem I see is that you guys rarely go a conversation without R talk. You aren't talking about everything, you are stuck on a few subjects. Maybe you are in a bit of a conversational rut?
Right again she has a lot to get off her chest and it comes sometimes in the middle of a convo when I least expect it. She needs lots of validating and lots of reassurance but today if she calls back my goal is to talk about stuff just stuff no R talk but if she brings it up I plan to listen. She has been more receptive to ideas on our M but ready to say she will try anything sometimes I just drop the seed and let her think
