As the Bolt Turns

[Bolt]

that's sad, because we all dig you...alot

you have not lost your identity

you know who you are

you are strong...so strong....a lesser man would have thrown in the towel a long time ago

not you - you know what you want and you are going after it
the problem therein lies in just how to do this

this is new territory

it makes us second guess ourselves and who we are

we need to find the person that we are at our core

the person our spouse fell in love (thanks 2step) and could not live without

you are also funny (women love funny)

you are sensitive - moving to your w hometown has got to be tough for you, but you are looking after her needs

and i'm sure very handsome, with or without a cold

why grr, are you getting sweet on me?

I KID

I do appreciate the kind words. My kids say I'm funny. Funny looking! (little rat bast**ds:))

romantic love is cyclical
you must know that
she will feel that again
especially for women i think....lets face it, you guys can feel that sexual urge no matter what
but when things are not good for us, we shut that part of us down
as things progress and they will, she will not be able to keep her hands off of you
just give her the time and space she needs
and my support for you across my time and space

Such great advice especially from a woman. I need to hear that aspect for sure. I was chatting with the MIL this morning. She totally has my back and is echoing what you guys are saying - and she talks to my W almost daily. When I would bring up bad things she would say, "You are hearing it from a man's perspective. Hear it from a woman's"

I will say, I cried when I read the part about her not keeping her hands off me. I so long for that day again.

I just keep telling myself. Once we move, we can then do the work. Until then, don't sweat the stuff...

MUCH easier said than done...