Piecing is almost harder than before...

[Bolt]

I hear that too! It's the fact about "changing".

New bolt vs old bolt.

Anytime there's a conflict that doesn't go as she intended it's my fault because I haven't changed. That's TOTAL bs. It's an excuse for sure.

I think I have to take a stand the way you did - WHEN the time is right - after a few days given my current sitch...