Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Sparks,

It seems like your wife is talking openly and honestly and is talking with you at couples therapy?

I think you have a good chance, as long as you live up to what you say you're going to do, and are listening to her concerns and the therapist.


Thanks, Jack. I really hope that what she says is open and honest in therapy. I am trying to be an open book. All I want is honesty. It seems like last night she wasn't going to believe any response I was going to give her, regardless of the safe place we established. The therapist even mentioned that I had given her some serious information last week due to the fact of this agreement.

I appreciate you telling me that I have a good chance. I know that it is going to take hard work. The hardest I have ever worked. I am up for it. I cannot control her actions or decisions. I can only hope that she will come around and want to fight this out with me instead of against or alongside me.

I will continue to be honest, live up to my words, and bean active listener.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated