As for the statistics...I think the ones who get D again are the ones who wanted out of the M. I think if you find someone good, someone committed, that you will be in the minority that stick it out. That's why we have to learn, that's why we DB. If we can't save this R, at least we're learning the skills for the next one. Better late than never!
My XH is the one who is going to get D again, not me! LOL. Course at this point, I have no real desire to be M again. I miss it. I liked it. But I can't see it as anything more than a lot of hassle and a piece of paper that can be taken away from me. I figure I had the M without the commitment, so this time I'll have the commitment without the M. LOL
Where is the "like" button?! Very well said, and I feel the exact same way myself.
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Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011