Hey 2Step... more good conversation with your W... That's great.
But, seems to me that you brought up R talk again. I guess that I don't see the point in bringing it up every time that you speak with your W. I don't know... I'm hung over today, so probably not thinking real clearly.
Did you refer this guy over to DB? Wondering what approach he is taking...
"I also told her I had met another guy in the same boat as me and I was shocked how much our sitch and hers were alike. I told her some of the things his W had told him and some of the mistakes he had made. She said
W "I would like to meet her. She is probably wondering the same things I am. If the changes are real. How long will they last? Will they last until he becomes comfortable again"
M "Those are exactly her concerns. Him and I have spoken at great lengh about this and we both realize that any changes based on another person could never be sustained the changes have to come from within you in order for them to be real regardless of the outcome""
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce