Hi EVeryone. This is my first post. I need help.

[JustStunned]

Hello Rue, by the codes I think you mean the abbreviations. There is a post that lists most of these. It is in the newcomers forum the second one down. I copied the contents to a document on my computer so I can refer to it. They do get easier with time, as this is supposed to. I feel better if I can help someone else along, so you are actually helping me, thanks.

I read one of your other posts in another thread about how will they see the changes if we never have contact. I think this takes patience. I understand sooner or later they will begin to get curious. We have so much history eventually they have to. I am not totally isolated either. The kids and SILs still have contact with me and her. I expect a little conversation about what I am doing occurs. I have had to limit contact with W so I could center myself and begin my journey of improvement.

I am trying to look at this as an opportunity to improve myself for my next R. I hope to have the next R within the structure of this M. Running away is easy and does not promote much self improvement.

We’ll get through this and come out stronger for it.