Michelle,

Thanks for the warning, I really appreciate it!

We are in this nasty act/react circle which I am trying to break. My H has admitted to responsibility somewhat. I say somewhat because I'm still pretty convinced there was an OW. 2Step says I have to open up to the possibility that there wasn't, but that's what I think. The one thing that has me pretty surprised right now is that when I didn't tell him he could come home, he didn't get mad. Good sign? I don't know. Like I said, I'm just pretty wary right now.


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11