And you're kinda right Sandi. She does have some deep mental wounds, both from her childhood and also from being with me. It's a long story, but will tell it for those interested. Which is why I'm taking this into account with how she's been behaving all these months. There's self-esteem, emotional and trust issues to contend with, unfortunately. Some aspects are really serious and some less, but my poor wife has been seriously traumatized her entire life.