Zen Thanks for the reply. I have DR and DB but I haven't been very good at applying them to this point. I have learned the importance of listening, not pursuing and GAL.
Our MC went well given the extremely poor state of our M. The C identified that we need to figure out if we are trying to improve our relationship so we can be better when separated or if we were going to improve so we can stay together.
W agreed to go back next week to figure out which one it is. Small victory given that W felt strongly that we were finished. Now the real hard work starts.
I made a date with W for Sat. to work on a combined budget, not the separated two homes kind.
I must make the most of this last chance we have.
Married 15 years 3 children 13, 12, 10 1st D bomb Jan 09 2nd D bomb Feb 11 I moved out June 11
