yes Al I suppose I could kiss him if I wanted to 'go there', but I am not getting any signals from him at all. In fact I only felt hesitance and fear coming off of him at the end of the date. I don't take it personally. I mean I know he likes me or he would not have gone out with me 8 times.
He said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship which I was fine with. But, it would appear he is not ready for any kind of intimacy at all which I am not so fine with.
If we just agree to be buddies and hang out together then that would actually be fine, because I would not spend half our date wondering if we are going to kiss or touch or not....but if we are supposed to be more then I would expect more.
And again, I could kiss him but ultimately I don't want to be with someone where I have to do all the pursuing. So I am just letting go and not stressing about it.
I have cancelled my membership to Match so if anyone new appears it will have to be from my circle of friends and connections
