When you guys are truly committed to being married, anything before that? You have some proving to do to her.

And you know, maybe not even right away. A marriage ultimately is a contract...piecing is a renegotiation of that contract, or a new one.

I do not see taking them back without any regard to your wants, needs or concerns, as being "successful" smile
Its a matter of timing, and communication, alot of the things you hopefully learn as an LBS.

"Wax on, Wax off" type of stuff. wink



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