2step you asked a very good question why am i trying to save this marriage? i thought alot about that last night the number one reason is our son......i want him to have his family together and i really do love him i don't know that i feel that romantic kind of love right now but i believe if we worked on things, that could be rekindled it has happened before it is also very interesting, when a few of my BITS tell me that they have some of the same behaviour (spell check tells me that's wrong) but they are here trying to salvage their relationships and he basically says "i know how i am, but i don't think it's worth it to change" meaning i'm not worth it i guess funny, when we were here last year, i told him i wanted him to stop smoking weed that was a real dealbreaker for him he said he never would i guess if this is to work, i have to take him as is that's something i have to figure out (if he gives the chance)
happy happy tuesday to you all and once again, thanks for reading
