that's sad, because we all dig you...alot

you have not lost your identity

you know who you are

you are strong...so strong....a lesser man would have thrown in the towel a long time ago

not you - you know what you want and you are going after it
the problem therein lies in just how to do this

this is new territory

it makes us second guess ourselves and who we are

we need to find the person that we are at our core

the person our spouse fell in love (thanks 2step) and could not live without

you are also funny (women love funny)

you are sensitive - moving to your w hometown has got to be tough for you, but you are looking after her needs

and i'm sure very handsome, with or without a cold

tho the last one doesn't much matter after a time, does it?

it's hard to not focus on what we perceive as a negative, BUT there has been so much positive in your situation

focus on that

romantic love is cyclical
you must know that
she will feel that again
especially for women i think....lets face it, you guys can feel that sexual urge no matter what
but when things are not good for us, we shut that part of us down
as things progress and they will, she will not be able to keep her hands off of you
just give her the time and space she needs
and my support for you across my time and space


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