SA - I agree that the letter wouldn't accomplish anything right now accept maybe to make you feel better...and that's a good enough reason for me. I'm also of the opinion that it can't do any more damage...he's filing for D after all...it's not like you are going to drive him further away. But the letter will say (and I know that you will say it nicely) what you need to say and maybe one day when H wakes up he will remember that after all he has done...you still cared enough to write it.
If you write the letter please remember...no expectations...you will likely not get a reply back, or he may reply with something hurtful...just saying
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
