Harrier is right about comparing yourself to others. And I really hate the definition of 'success' although I understand it. You'll dislike it too when some of your friends here, are successful...just not married.
10K post I know, and wading through all the, "Good job" posts or the frivilous crap...
Left click on my name, click topics created, that will give you a much shorter list, it will also...give you better insight into how I was feeling at the time. Right now if I do it, I'm going to sound like a history teacher telling you about the Magna Carta.
Guys, I believe in piecing, when you guys are rebuilding or whatever you want to call it, your concerns about the marriage are just as valid as hers. You're not taking her back no matter the cost. "No sex?! OK! As long as your home!" F that. I'm not saying rush in, but it has to be on the table. Her concerns and your concerns are of equal import.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
