His standard line for everything is-"I have a job." To some degree he is right. There's so much that I can do during the day and then "we" are free in the evenings. Anytime I have asked him to take care of something, he says "right, I'll just take a vacation day to take care of that." He makes me feel guilty. He's good at that and hey, it works. Why would he want to change it?
