From the Darkness Comes the Light!

[MichelleLT]

Zen - my XH did a lot of that too. It's such a mind trip. Makes it hard to tell which way is up and whether the sun is going to rise again lol. Those WASs sure seem to know how to f with out heads!

LIS - definitely be wary. It's great that he says he missed you, but things can't just go back to how they were. My XH decided after 8 months of S that he wanted to try dating, I went along with it, let him set the pace, and a month later he was back with OW. He told me later that it was because things were too good and he realized that things might actually work, which made him face the fact that he had been stupid and selfish and, heaven forbid, might have been wrong. Then he felt stupid and guilty and withdrew again and OW was there to catch him. Let his actions prove his intentions, don't be swayed by pretty words. And take it slow. Make sure to build the friendship and work on communication a lot.