Originally Posted By: XYZ
I really no longer know if I'm piecing or DBing. W still says ILY, but zero affection now. Not even a hug and cheek kiss. It feels like she's going the wrong direction. I'm backing off too. I was so hopeful just two days ago and now not so much....


man, maybe if we double team this issue, we can both get our Ws back.

It's so odd that we're exactly in the same space. The only difference is my wife still gives me a kiss goodbye (at least this morning) and did a lot of the other affection recently but hasn't said ILY in over 2 months...

I'm confused as to what stage I'm in as well...


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE