Oh, forgot to add that I got a text from W last night while we were both out regarding the depression I had been in which helped precipitate this whole mess. It read "I am soooooo sorry for not being there when u felt like this". My response "You didn't know. I was difficult to be around."
This gave me a little extra hope that we can understand each other better and build an even stronger R.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011