Thanks..guys and gals..no KAW I am really busy and feeling stressed..this new computer thing at work is holding us up on our daily work...and since I have grasped it better than a few others, I am the one they ask for help...have to go in this weekend to try and catch up...plus I do a side thing of selling cookies at this time of year and have 100 dozen for next week.....but if these are the worst things to deal with we would all be lucky...
H called me at work the other day for nothing real important..maybe small talk about some cookie order, but he has not done that for a long time..actually called me a second time and appologized for bothering me again..I said no problem..there is a couple from our church who are a little "slow", and he has kinda taken them under his wing..the wife comes to our dinners on Wed. nights, but only if my h is there to sit with her, well he was not going to be there, so he asked if i would be willing to help her find someone to sit with..I said sure..I did go and sit with her...so h felt comfortable enough to ask me to do that..he could have asked any number of people there to do that..so I feel good.
I am giving him our queen bed this weekend..it seems kinda sad to me..but I will survive..I ask myself if it is hard to give the bed up, what the he** am I going to do if a d is the ultimate end to all this..guess jsut take each step along the way/and I thought I was strong enough for anything.
Did get good news on mammogram..so am going to call h and share it with him, since he seemed concerned for me..and reassured me that it probably would be ok.