OK, so I just talked to my wife and reinforced what SANDI2 told me to do. I told the wife I want to cancel our counseling sessions and stop this relationship talk every week with counselor. I want to make the remaingin time worthwhile and enjoyable as possible. So with that. I am going to see if this time without any further counseling we can move in a better direction. My wife and I both are going to move forward with individual counseling.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out