OK, so I just talked to my wife and reinforced what SANDI2 told me to do. I told the wife I want to cancel our counseling sessions and stop this relationship talk every week with counselor. I want to make the remaingin time worthwhile and enjoyable as possible. So with that. I am going to see if this time without any further counseling we can move in a better direction. My wife and I both are going to move forward with individual counseling.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out