2Step, yeah, time is your friend. It took me a long while to understand that. Being as Type A as I am, I want things fixed NOW. Well, all I did with that thinking was make things much, much worse. My H is about as laid back as one could get and the way I was dealing with things was disastrous. It's funny, though, the changes that are happening in me. I'm becoming a lot more laid back. And you know what??? I like it. A LOT. Once we become more comfortable in the unknown, amazing things start happening.
Get the book! I would love to talk about it with someone. I already have questions. I'm actually looking forward to my H coming home (he's been on a business trip this week) instead of panicking about it. I feel a lot more comfortable understanding my feelings and why I am such a dope some days.
