We went home to switch cars around and low and behold.........he got me 4 hand dipped chocolate covered strawberries and a card and wrote a super sweet sentiment in it. HOLY COW! Knock me over with a feather!
One thing I did wrong during our pre A marriage was ... I didnt think H could give me things like that. I had forgotten how he used to do and my whole attitude was telling him "you would never think of that!!!" etc etc. Guess what? OW expected so much from him and he delivered. SOOOOOO, mish, start dealing with Gabe as if he were a responsible mature loving man. Even if reality is far from that, I think men love to feel we think of them capable of making us happy (which of course we know isnt the right psycological approach since we are responsible for our own happiness etc etc etc). xxx K
