Well had a bad night, she had rang me three times on my mobile which i missed then i took dog out for walk and when i got in she had rung house phone, in the day she had been offered a house but only if the daughter that is with me goes with her, my daughter refused so wife lost the house, she rang again and we spoke, said she wanted to sort maintenance, we had already spoke of this before it was obvious it was an excuse to get at me because the house hadnt gone her way. We spoke on face book and i got an ear full about it was all my fault and now she can only have a two bed, i just stayed calm, she continually questioned me about why i was out and that i must be seeing someone, im not i can assure you. She then wanted me to drive 60 miles today to take her out, i cant do it as daughter needs running about, she couldnt understand i had said no. I assured her there is no one else. She stated that the marriage must end several times, she also said how cut up she is but will go through with it.It seems that when i go dark she hates it and gets nasty, should i stop or what can i do, by the way i never go to town so as a 180 i went and had a coffee, shes totally confused with that....kevc