Relationship Discussions - When is ok?

[Scared2Def]

Well this morning was a HUGE blowup in our marriage counseling session. When I say HUGE and mean GINORMOUS.

All was going ok then I was asked what I thought and I told her and the counselor that basically.... I feel like I am in a game and just being toyed with. Well that ended up with my wife going on full Offensive and long story short, she is leaving in June, needs to seperate to gather her thoughts and she re inforced that it does not mean divorce.

To me, it is the beginning of the end. So she exploded with basically the same things she has been telling me but BOY O BOY was it an eruption of biblical proportions.

I am at work now and still sweating from the fear and hurt.

Being military stationed in Germany I have to start paperwork for her and the kids to return early from our Assignment. I had the paperwork at home, I had just been delaying the inevitable, well after our Counselign session, we drove home, I went upstairs and came down with the "early return" paperwork. I told her to fill it all out so I can get the ball rolling for her June departure. I guess this means I finally broke and get it.

I had been holding those papers with a glimmer of hope but today that bubble certainly burst. When I get home today after work, I guess we can discuss in a more calm manner what and how she plans to get settled. Since she is moving to a place with no job, vehicle or place to stay. Also no place to store out 18 years worth of furniture and "stuff".

Lots is discuss and I only want a few items from our house. Mostly my junk that she would just throw away or sell anyway.