SC,

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I don't know if there is anything I can say to make the pain go away.

I had a horrible day yesterday as well. I called my H and said Happy V Day and he didn't reply, I was so heart broken, the tears were flowing non-stop and I couldn't comprehend? I'm the mother of your children, strangers say it to each other why couldn’t he say it knowing it would simply put a smile on my face? I then did something even more stupid, went shopping with my friend for her b-friend and saw some sneakers my H would have loved and I text him a picture to see if he liked them so I can buy it for him, you know what I got NO REPLY! Then I found out he had gone all out for OW on Sunday for V-day, that broke me…it really did.

After yesterday I don’t know if I can ever forgive him and I decided to lay low and take some time for myself and decide what's best for me and my children. I think what you are doing is the only way we can seek comfort in our sitch. Our kids are a god send!

I understand your pain, I really do. I'm so sorry...


Me:32 H:32
M:9 T:15
D:4 S:2
OW/PA: JANUARY 10
ILYBINILWY AUGUST 10
Goes and Comes July/September
Moves out September
Sep. since Sept.