Oh well, then you know what you are working with. I find it strange for her to tell you that she loves you. WAS's usually stop saying that as soon as there is an OM/OW.
Professions of love were certainly not a matter of routine. She said something similar shortly after the Bomb ("I will always love you..always...I just can't live with you) and around Christmas '09. Personally, I'm looking upon the most recent profession as her "goodbye".
By way of update, there is not a whole lot to report. She left abrasive telephone and/or text messages this past Friday and Sunday. I did not reply. Today I received the most recent lawyer's letter (her lawyer is extremely aggressive). I have not replied. Often, I feel that she wants me to respond angrily so that she can justify her decision.