Sorry you and W had such a horrible fight. But alamo there is still something fishy about this appointment. I could be mad as hell at my H, but if there is something going on with the kids I let him know and would never tell him he couldn't come to an appointment.

She did a really good job of making you feel like a piece of crap tonight so she could get her own way. She has made comments about "why can't you let her do things for herself, and you are so controlling you haven't changed" This is all BS. For starters, this appointment is not about HER. It is for your S. And your S has two parents. Who the hell is she to tell you that you can't be there. She is playing some reall nasty head games with you, and sorry to say, you played them the way she wanted you to.

Now you feel guilty and are second guessing yourself. She knew what to say to make sure you don't go.

I feel for you Alamo, Sorry for being a little harsh. But my H does those things to. Picks the fight so he can have his secrets. I really hope you go tomorrow or you won't be sleeping much in the next few days. I will be thinking about you tomorrow. Great big hugs for you!

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007