i will write more later because my h just walked in and is staying the night (just to help me because i am taking care of my dad alone)
but i really do think you need to breathe and take the advice you gave me
wait 24 hours before saying or doing anything
you will feel differently tomorrow
oh bolt, you have come so far
don't let the anger in you sounded angry and lets face it, we all understand that
but she is hurting, she is scared be the strong, amazing man you are
give her her space...i'm sure you think you have been and you most likely have, but if she needs more, give it tho' i have a think her feelings of being smothered are from the entire situation
you are about to go through alot she is most likely projecting her fears onto your marriage
she won't talk about separating anymore?? that is a good, good thing
all the strength and warmth you have given me, right back atcha xxoo
