Welcome to the site! I am sorry you are having a hard time. Have you been reading the book?
Also you might want to add some info to your signature it will help us, help u. Let us know how long M your age your W's kids that sort of stuff. Check out some of the other users post to get an idea.
Also from what I am reading I would say no M talk at this time you are not helping your cause one bit.
Do you think she does not know you want to work on the M?
Check back often. The first few days of posting are the hardest once you get it down you will have lots of people check in.
