Well, I had hoped for more from the community in general as to what approach to take with this situation, but it appears that most are as confounded (sorry for the pun) as I am...
H:41 W:39 Married: 13 Yrs Together 14 Yrs S:15 S:13 D:5 Bomb dropped 08 Mar 2010 Return from Iraq 28 Mar 2010 In House Separation Affair Discovered 09 Jun 2010 Divorced Jan 19, 2010