Update...

My W's grandmother passed away in the middle of last night. W called me this afternoon to tell me. I had gone with W and SIL to see her grandmother day before yesterday. She was very ill.

W and I talked a lot about that and everything that W, SIL and MIL have to do to plan a funeral. About how they plan to burry her in Buffalo where she spent most of her life.

I offered to help in any way that I could. W thanked me and told me that we'd chat tonight.

No R talk of course.

Later W texted me to ask me if I'd check our mail for her today... she has never had it forwarded... and let me know that SS is suspended from school tomorrow. I responded that I would check the mail and about SS. I told W again that I was sorry about her grandma and that I was sad about it too. She responded 'yeah it is hard... we'll talk tonight."

Don't know if W will call or contact me at all tonight. Not really expecting it with everything going on.

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce