I believed that about my H too...until I spoke with my DB counselor. Our perception of hate can often be skewed. Hate involves passionate reactions, engagement, involvement. Does that exist in your interactions with you or is she cooly distant? In my case my H has no passion about me. He really tolerates me. That's not hate, that's indifference.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
