Originally Posted By: grr
denver you know what that sounds like to me?
that the other man is there to make you jealous
as sort of a reactionary thing, if you will
she is using him to test you
if you were just speaking of reconciliation, it makes no sense that she could be swayed from her husband for someone who did something nice on valentines day
i really think she is just making sure you stick to your commitment
"because if you don't, there is someone else who will" and the like
i really think that's what it is


That has crossed my mind grr. Who knows. I really am not that concerned about OM. If my W were to ultimately choose to pursue R with him over reconciling M with me... ummm... how do I say this politely? She would be a fool... I was flabbergasted back in November when I found out that she was giving this guy the time of day!

I'm just going to patiently wait for W to make the next move. Trying not to be overly confident. wink

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce